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Tingting: Hiya, everybody.

Tingting: Is anybody there?

Tangtang: Yep.

Xu Chi: ?

Tingting: Right now I’m right here not for pushing Shortie to replace. As a substitute, I wish to focus on with you about improve the happiness of writing.

Xu Chi: ??

Tangtang: OK.

Tingting: OK, let’s begin.

Tingting: Sooner or later, as I awakened, I noticed that I out of the blue grew to become Shortie. And I had inherited his expertise in writing. With it, I might write quite a few glorious works. Nonetheless, I used to be at all times upset, as a result of I solely had not more than 100 followers. Subsequently, irrespective of how properly I wrote, I used to be not common.

Tangtang: Are there every other supplementary situations?

Tingting: Sure.

Ting Ting: Though I had turn into Shortie, I saved my unique persona and habits. In different phrases, I used to be nonetheless that sensible Ting Ting.

Tangtang: ?

Tingting: Let me end.

Tingting: Sooner or later there have been a number of extra detrimental feedback about my works. Consideration: I imply the type of feedback which threw the child out with the bathwater.

Ting Ting: At the moment, three feelings rose in my coronary heart, which drove me to cope with this matter in three alternative ways.

Tingting: Subsequent, let’s analyze these three conditions: First, I used to be indignant, however I ignored these feedback. I used to be a wise woman, so I believed the readers making these feedback had been silly after I learn them. Now that they didn’t perceive my works, advising them was identical to casting pearls earlier than swine. As a wise individual, the only option was to avoid these readers.

Tingting: Second, I used to be so indignant that I made a decision to debate with them. I used to be a human being, which was extra essential than the truth that I used to be a author. Each regular individual would probably received indignant, particularly going through these folks denigrating one’s works. Subsequently, I lastly argued fiercely with them.

Tingting: Third, I wished to flee from this circle. After studying these feedback, I started to doubt myself. Possibly they had been proper, and I certainly didn’t have the flexibility to write down tales. Even when I used to be assured with my works, increasingly more detrimental feedback made me much less assured. At the moment, I learn the works of different writers, which stunned me and let me know the large hole between me and the legendary author, which lastly crushed me. As a wise individual, I ought to let it go and quit writing. Additionally, I believed I had no expertise in writing, so I selected to give up writing. Now that writing was simply one in every of my hobbies, I wouldn’t be indignant or upset with the detrimental feedback any extra so long as I gave up writing. Then, I’d be relieved.

Tingting: Nonetheless, Tingting appeared at the moment, who was my fan and inspired me with different followers day by day. Though they didn’t submit too many feedback, I at the very least felt relieved. Resulting from that, I’d wish to proceed writing.

Tingting: In order that’s what occurred to me. Whereas some folks had been supporting me, I used to be denying myself, which made me painful. I couldn’t discover a approach to eliminate the ache.

Tangtang: Sooner or later I awakened and have become Guinea Pig. Then I knew Shortie and made pals with him. After I learn his works, I didn’t assume his work was as unhealthy as he stated. If he continued writing, he will surely get extra good feedback and extra followers. He was sensible, however he was not so assured in himself.

Tangtang: Effectively, let me interview Quick-Tailed Cat. I’d wish to ask you a query: When will you overlook that individual you’re keen on?

Tingting: You didn’t point out this after we rehearsed.

“Tingting” drew again a message.

Xu Chi: …

Tangtang: Similar to once you discover it arduous to go to sleep at evening, if you happen to maintain considering “When will I be capable of go to sleep?”, You’ll be able to’t go to sleep the entire evening. Equally, if you happen to maintain considering “I’m gonna overlook that individual”, it means you haven’t actually forgotten him. Subsequently, if you happen to maintain considering “I wish to be relieved”, which means you haven’t actually been relieved.

Tangtang: What does “being relieved” actually imply? Meaning you don’t consider this matter. You couldn’t go to sleep until you cease considering “When will I be capable of go to sleep at evening?”. You couldn’t overlook him until you cease considering “I’m gonna overlook that individual”.

Tangtang: The true motive Why Shortie is so painful is neither he has nothing to do with these readers nor he denies himself. As a substitute, it’s as a result of he cares about others’ feedback on his works. Because you lastly selected to surrender writing, how did the concept come into being? It was these detrimental feedback or glorious works of different writers that drove you. They had been seemingly telling you that you weren’t lower out for writing, which prompted you to provide you with the concept.

Tangtang: You could assume you can be relieved so long as you cease writing. However the alternative that “give up writing” revealed that you simply cared about this matter. Because you cared about it, how are you going to obtain actual aid?

Tangtang: For the reason that supply of your ache is caring about this matter, the actual approach to be relieved is “not care about it”, that’s, “you gained’t be relieved until you give up considering of it”.

Tingting: What ought to I do? If there’s no approach, then I’m not gonna be relieved perpetually?

Tangtang: We will’t depend on considering “I don’t care” to be relieved. The one approach is to seek out an everlasting, however at all times ongoing exercise that is stuffed with allure. It will possibly make Shortie concentrate on it in order to overlook different unimportant issues. Effectively, this exercise will not be for the pursuit of these unimportant issues. As a substitute, the goal of it’s to immerse your self in it and benefit from the inside happiness and the tranquility of this course of.

Tangtang: Let me ask Quick-Tailed Cat. Are you cheerful when you find yourself writing?

Xu Chi: Sure.

Tangtang: So have you ever discovered this exercise?

Xu Chi: Sure.

Tangtang: What’s it?

Xu Chi: Writing itself.

Tingting: Crying. We don’t know consolation you. Tangtang stated the rationale why you stopped writing not too long ago was you wish to give up it. In order that, we discovered this approach to enlighten you.

Tangtang: My pricey author, simply benefit from the technique of writing and overlook anything, okay?

Tangtang: I do know it’s tough for you to not care about it, however I couldn’t discover every other approach to make you are feeling higher.

Tingting: Crying. Even Tangtang stated she wished to rent a gaggle of individuals to submit extra detrimental feedback. After studying increasingly more detrimental feedback, you can be get used to it and gained’t care about it anymore.

Tangtang: When did I say that???? Cease speaking nonsense!

Tingting: You probably did!!!

Tingting: Crying. Shortie, in case you are actually sad, simply take a break, okay?

Tangtang: I do know writing is a lonely journey for writers, however you gained’t be alone as a result of we’ll at all times be there for you.